Expanding the Definition of Family: A Look into The Wedding Banquet
The Wedding Banquet, a reimagining of Ang Lee's 1993 film, has at its heart a queer chosen family. The narrative follows two gay couples, Angela and Lee, and Min and Chris, who find mutual support and acceptance in each other. Directed by Andrew Ahn, the film explores the complexities of building a family, including the desire for a child, the demands of a wealthy South Korean family, and the cost of living. As one of the characters notes, "You have to find community, you have to rely on each other."
Key Takeaways:
- The film explores the theme of chosen family, particularly among the queer community, where family and community may not be accepting of individuals' identities.
- The narrative highlights the complexities of building a family, including the desire for a child, the demands of a wealthy South Korean family, and the cost of living.
- The characters in the film, all of whom are queer, come from different backgrounds and have different perspectives on having children.
- The idea that having a baby is inherently selfish in a world of overstretched resources is debated among the characters.
- The film notes that the queer community in Korean culture is not as open or active as it is in other cultures.
- The film's characters grapple with the question of whether having a child is selfish, and whether it's more important to focus on building a loving home than to bring another person into the world.
- The film's director, Andrew Ahn, notes that he wanted to reimagine the original 1993 film to reflect the changes in the queer community since then.
Statistics:
- 95% of the Blackfeet and Nez Perce Tribal Nations were eradicated off the face of the earth, giving Lily Gladstone a personal perspective on the importance of carrying one's legacy down through generations through having children.
- 26 is the age of Han Gi-Chan, the South Korean actor playing Min in his first English language film.
- 34 is the age of Bowen Yang, the Emmy-nominated comedian and actor playing Chris.
- 36 is the age of Kelly Marie Tran, the Star Wars and Raya actor playing Angela.
- 64 is the age of Joan Chen, the Marco Polo and Twin Peaks actor playing Angela's mother May.
Sources:
- Ang Lee's 1993 film The Wedding Banquet
- Fire Island (2022)
- Driveways (2019)
- Wicked (musical)
- Star Wars (2020)
- Raya (2020)
- Twin Peaks (TV series)
- Marco Polo (TV series)
- Blackfeet and Nez Perce Tribal Nations (Native American tribes)
- Youn Yuhjung's Oscar-winning performance in Minari (2020)