Teen Dating Violence: A Growing Concern in the Military Community

Teen dating violence is a pervasive issue affecting youth in all communities, including military families. According to the National Teen Dating Violence Prevention Initiative, females ages 16 to 24 are the most vulnerable to intimate abuse, with a rate nearly triple that of any other age group. This abuse can lead to a range of negative consequences, including substance abuse, weight control issues, risky sexual behaviors, suicide, and pregnancy. Furthermore, a significant percentage of teens have witnessed or know someone who has been a victim of dating violence.

Key Takeaways:

• The majority of teens (57%) reported knowing someone who has been physically, verbally, or sexually abused by an intimate partner, while 33% have admitted to witnessing a violent event.
• Males are also victims of dating violence, although females are more likely to be victims.
• Despite the alarming statistics, 81% of surveyed parents stated they do not believe or do not know if dating violence is an issue, and 54% have never addressed dating violence with their children.
• Educating children on healthy and unhealthy couple communication, boundaries, and warning signs of abusive relationships is crucial in preventing teen dating violence.
• Parents should talk to their children about difficult subjects, pay attention to warning signs such as decreased interest in activities, changes in appearance, or isolating behavior.
• If a child is in an abusive relationship, the first step is to talk to them and get them help and counseling if necessary.

Statistics:

• 57% of teens reported knowing someone who has been physically, verbally, or sexually abused by an intimate partner.
• 33% of youth have admitted to witnessing a violent event.
• 81% of surveyed parents stated they do not believe or do not know if dating violence is an issue.
• 54% of parents have never addressed dating violence with their children.
• The majority of kids are perpetrators, victims, witnesses, or at least aware of teen violence.

Sources:

• National Teen Dating Violence Prevention Initiative
• Family Advocacy at Charleston Air Force Base (phone number: 963-6972)